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Wednesday, 25 June 2008 16:00 |
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Well friends as time slips by us so quickly it is nice to know that we can keep records of goings on, so easily. The technology of the digital age makes it so convenient that we sometimes get too lost in that world, and then time is zipping by very quiclky. Fortunately a wedding experience isn't like that when we look at all the plans and preparations for the big day. But then boom! it's gone and the debt and exhaustion leave us in stressful shock for months and sometimes years, depending on whether the parents helped flip most of the bill or not. Best advice is good planning and low expectations of the perfect day. Remember the day is all about you and your soul mate, and the beautiful pictures and videos to visually remember it all. My wife and I had some challenges with our photographer and our videographer, which to this day reminds us of the back up plan for such a big disappointment. Have 2 of each doing the visuals and then you have a back up plan if it doesn't work out with the so called professionals. Lot's of deep breathing and water will help too. Oh the facts are that people who elope and avoid the big diamonds and big weddings stay married longer. Remember that kids change everything, from a mans point of view and no matter what kind of power your love has you can't change the other person. They will always be like their parents in one way or another. Blessings. BH
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